According to David Gurteen:
A positive relationship is one in which two people listen, communicate clearly without judgment, respect, and trust each other, as well as support, encourage, and help each other on a practical and emotional level.
Not always easy, but something to aspire to*!
*something to aspire to = ein erstrebenswertes Ziel
What would you drive if you wanted to fight crime?
You probably wouldn’t think of tuk-tuks, would you?
Yes, those three-wheeled vehicles that are used as taxis mainly in Asian countries.
But that’s exactly what the police force in Gwent in Wales are using in the fight against crime.
Their tuk-tuks will be used to patrol parks, walkways and other public spaces in two Welsh towns.
What do you think about the idea?
In emergencies, helicopter support isn’t always possible or practical.
So are their alternatives?
Take a look at how Jet Suits can support emergency paramedic responses in the mountains.
It’s amazing!
Does that sound a bit harsh?
I’m sorry but people often don’t want the product or service itself.
They want the change it brings.
They want to know how our product or service will benefit or improve their lives.
Something to think about perhaps?
I often see other English trainers and coaches promise rapid results.
I’ve always felt a bit bad at not being able to promise anything specific.
Of course, I know that people will become more confident communicators while working with me. But not within a month and with only one session a week.
But recently I came across a beautiful article written by Business Coach, George Kao.
What George has to say about this topic, has made me feel a lot better.
George writes:
“When people trust you, there’s no need to promise results.
If what you’re offering is a product or service they’ve been wanting, they will sign up if they trust your expertise.
Trust is developed gradually (therefore, sustainably) when we show up with authentic content on a consistent basis …
You can’t really promise results anyway: it’s always up to the client to do something to change themselves.
You can, however, truthfully promise your structure, your content and your care.”
So if you’ve been worrying about not being able to promise results within a specific time frame, George’s words might be able to help you.
The planet does not need more successful people. The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers, and lovers of all kinds.
Dalai Lama
A thought for the upcoming, well-deserved weekend. 
