How To Make Your Day Better Than It Is Now

How To Make Your Day Better Than It Is Now

How To Make Your Day Better Than It Is Now

You want to improve how your day is going?

Josh Spector recommends the following:

1. Do one meaningful thing you can complete in a single day or even in an hour. You’ll feel happy when it’s done. And it’ll help to develop positive habits over time.

2. Do one thing you regret not doing yesterday. Learn from your mistakes you made yesterday. You’ll feel better once those negative feelings have been eliminated.

3. Do one thing to pleasantly surprise someone. You’ll feel good making other people feel good.

4. Do one thing you’ve avoided. Ask yourself: “Of the things I’ve been avoiding, which one am I going to do today?” You’ll feel proud and relieved that you’ve tackled something you might have been fearing.

5. Do one selfish thing. Doing one thing that makes you happy is a sign that you’re taking care of yourself.

Which one are you going to tackle first today?

What’s the Difference Between Homework And Housework?

What’s the Difference Between Homework And Housework?

What’s the Difference Between Homework And Housework?

Here are two words that are often confused.

Homework refers to the tasks you were given by your teacher and that you were supposed to do at home. (In German: “‘Hausaufgaben’)

Perhaps you have your own children now and spend your afternoons helping them with their homework—as your parents might have done years ago.

Housework refers to the everyday tasks or chores that need to be done at home, like washing the clothes, washing the dishes, cleaning and ironing. (In German: ‘im Haushalt anfallende Arbeiten’)

 

Leadership Is a Group Sport

Leadership Is a Group Sport

Leadership Is a Group Sport

“In an increasingly complex world, appointed leaders simply don’t know enough to decide what is new and better. Leadership is a group sport, not an individual heroic activity.”
Edgar Schein

There are the ‘hero’ leaders who believe they have to do it alone. But there are those who realise that they need the support and help of others. Those who humbly and honestly admit:

“Wait a minute, I can’t do that. I need help. I’m the CEO, but I need help. I need to listen to people. I need to understand how to do this from others who know better than I do.”

Interested in the topic? You might like to read Ego Zehnder’s “In Conversation with Ed Schein“.

What Do You Know About Colour Psychology in Films?

What Do You Know About Colour Psychology in Films?

What Do You Know About Colour Psychology in Films?

Only recently did I realise that colour sets the tone and mood of a film before any of the actors have even started to speak.

Do you know which colours signify violence, sweetness, warmth, madness, insecurity, immaturity, calmness and fantasy?

Take a guess before looking at Lidia Seara‘s excellent video montage showing how filmmakers use colour to create the desired emotion in the various scenes.

Did you guess correctly?

 

6 Ways To Master the Art of Small Talk

6 Ways To Master the Art of Small Talk

6 Ways To Master the Art of Small Talk

Not everyone was born with the gift of the gab* or the social confidence of a talk-show host. For non-native speakers in particular, small talk can be intimidating and anxiety-producing. But, according to Debra Fine, it’s the appetiser for any relationship, so it’s well worth mastering.

You just might meet a potential client, the love of your life, or a future employer at your next event.

Try and use these strategies to master small talk in any social environment—online or offline—and you might even learn to look forward to social events:

1. Be curious. Use the power of questions. The great thing about asking questions is that it takes the focus off you. A good question can keep the other person talking for a few minutes.

And a few decent questions on your part will also leave the other person thinking you’re a brilliant conversationalist. Just avoid questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.”

2. Be courteous with your attention. Nothing drains the energy from a conversation faster than one of the parties showing an obvious lack of interest. Maintain eye contact and be a good listener. This one tip will boost your success.

3. Steer the conversation to something interesting. The weather and the price of petrol might be fine for a few minutes, but everyone gets bored with this type of talk. Most people love to be part of an interesting conversation.

4. Avoid controversial topics. Religion and politics are questionable topics. Everyone has their own opinions, and those opinions rarely change.

Overly personal issues are another subject to avoid. You might have just come out of hospital, but keep that conversation for your best friend or your mother.

Find something to talk about that’s unlikely to lead to aggravation.

Something interesting in the immediate vicinity can be a good conversation starter.

5. Get the person’s name, remember it and use it often. Just imagine being able to use their name if you happen to bump into them again!

6. Smile. You appear more inviting and less intimidating when you smile. You’ll feel more confident, too. There’s no reason to grin all the time. Just smile easily.

 

The best way to master any new skill is to practise it. Use this information and work on your small talk skills. Master them, and you’ll expand your social possibilities.

You’d like to practise your conversation skills? Come and join our “Colourful Conversation” group on Thursdays from 5—6pm. You’ll master the art of small talk in no time whatsoever.

*gift of the gab = Redegewandtheit, Sprachgewandtheit