How to get talking

Not everyone likes networking and socialising. Some people can get talking without any problems whatsoever. Others find it difficult to get started.

Memorising some conversation openers can help. You’ll find 17 here (link to: https://www.inc.com).

And remember, always ask open-ended questions, such as: “What do you like about your job?” It’s the best way to get the other person to speak about him- or herself.

Closed-ended questions are those question that only get a “yes” or “no” reply. That’s not what we want, do we?

Getting ready for the holidays

Before you go off on your summer holidays, you might like to think about what kind of out-of-office message you’d like to set up.

You’ll find six templates here (link to: themuse.com).

Are you looking for something simple? Or are you prepared to have a little bit of fun?

I think the first message looks professional and sounds friendly enough, doesn’t it? Or would you like to be a little bit more daring?

Do you see these things as being unprofessional? William does.

In this article (link to dailymail.co.uk), etiquette expert William Hanson tells us what he considers to be unprofessional in the workplace.

Things he mentions:

  • tattoos
  • nose rings and piercings
  • tie clips
  • too much perfume (something I don’t like either!)
  • charity bangles (What are they? Perhaps something like this?)
  • visible hair roots
  • high heels (not more than 3 inches)
  • brown shoes with suit
  • waistcoat
  • stubble (What is it? Look here!)
  • backpacks

I’d say that it very much depends on your place of work whether this is acceptable or not. Do you agree?