How to stay cool, calm and collected

What can we do in the middle of a challenging or frustrating situation to stop our current thinking pattern? Cesar L. Rodriguez tells us to use a technique from NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) called “pattern interrupt”. So when we’re in annoying situation, we should try rubbing our chins and asking ourselves, “What else could this mean?”. The brain will change from a frustrated to an inquisitive mode and will start focusing on answering the question we have just asked.
Listen to Cesar explaining the technique here.

Not your twin

Do you have any idea how you would translate the German word “Doppelgänger”? You might be surprised. It’s “doppelganger”. A doppelganger is a person who looks so much like you that it could be your twin.

You might like to read this report about two doppelgängers here. And if you’re really interested in finding someone who looks like you, you can go to twinstrangers.net and start a search!

A simple writing tip

A German colleague of mine invited me to attend one of his workshops. He used an abbreviation (that is a short way of writing a word or a phrase) that I was not able to understand. I had absolutely no idea what his workshop was about. I’m sure he didn’t realise it himself. He probably uses the abbreviation again and again. And that’s where the danger lies. We are so used to using abbreviations (like ‘etc.’ and ‘asap’), that we can’t imagine that others won’t understand them.

That’s why I always tell people to avoid abbreviations and to write the word or words out in full. So instead of writing ‘i.e.’, write ‘in other words’. And rather than write ‘F2F’, write ‘face to face’. Or ‘laugh out loud’, rather than ‘LOL’.

You’ll make it easier for your reader to understand you! 🙂