Struggling To Get Others To Agree?

Struggling To Get Others To Agree?

Imagine this.

You’re waiting in line at the photocopier.
Someone walks up and says:

🗨️ “Excuse me. I have 5 pages. May I use the photocopier?”

Later, someone else asks:
🗨️ “Excuse me. I have 5 pages. May I use the photocopier because I’m in a rush?”

And then:
🗨️ “Excuse me. I have 5 pages. May I use the photocopier because I have to make copies?”

Who would you let jump the queue?

A Harvard study from the 1970s found:

✔️ 60% let the first person go ahead.
✔️ 94% let the second person go ahead.
✔️ 93% let the third person go ahead.

Even when the reason was… obvious.

Why?
Because “because” works.

It gives people a reason — and that reason makes them more likely to say yes.

Even a simple explanation can build trust, clarity and connection.

Next time you make a request, try adding “because…”
And see what happens.

Have you used this trick before?
I’d love to hear your version.

What Does Your English Sound Like?

What Does Your English Sound Like?

Not your textbook English.
Not your “please-don’t-judge-me” English.
Your real English.

The one you use when you ask for help.
Share an idea.
Run a meeting.

It might not be perfect.
But it works. And it’s yours.

English isn’t owned by Britain. Or America.
It’s ours — global, messy, powerful.

Let’s stop hiding it.
Let’s stop apologising for it.
Let’s start using it — proudly, clearly and without fear.

Your English is valid. Even when it’s not perfect.

Did Anyone Teach You to Speak?

Did Anyone Teach You to Speak?

School taught us grammar rules.
How to analyse texts.
How to pass exams.

But not how to speak with confidence.
Not how to listen and respond in real conversations.
Not how to feel calm when it’s our turn to talk.

That’s the gap so many of my clients feel — even after years of learning English.

We talk about literacy and numeracy.
But what about oracy – the ability to speak and listen well?

If your English still feels stuck, it’s not your fault.
You were never really taught how to use it.

That’s what I help change.
So you can stop translating in your head – and start connecting.

Want to Write Clearer English? Let Hemingway Help.

Want to Write Clearer English? Let Hemingway Help.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:
“Is this sentence too long?”
“Does this sound too formal?”
“Will people get what I mean?”

The free Hemingway App can help.

It shows you:

  • Where your sentences are too difficult to read
  • Where the passive voice sneaks in
  • Which adverbs you don’t need
  • Which words sound too fancy

One click. Instant feedback. Excellent guidance.

Because clear English isn’t about showing off.
It’s about being understood.

👉 Try it today. And see what your writing looks like — when it finally speaks your voice.

Networking in English? It’s Easier Than You Think.

Networking in English? It’s Easier Than You Think.

If you’ve never joined one of my Speed Networking sessions, here’s what you won’t be doing:

  • No pitching your business
  • No perfect elevator speech
  • No pressure to impress

Instead?

You’ll practise speaking English in short, honest, real conversations.

I’ll give you gentle prompts — little personal questions that get you thinking, smiling and connecting.

Like:

  • What’s something small that made you smile this week?
  • What’s something you’re good at that not many people know?
  • What’s something you’ve learned recently — big or small?

You’ll talk to other professionals — 1:1, just 6 minutes at a time.
And in the process, you’ll build confidence without even realising it.

It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about showing up. Practising. Feeling seen and heard — in English.

  • A safe space
  • A surprising boost
  • A chance to connect with others (and yourself)

💬 Curious to try?

You’ll find all the details here.


How to Disagree (Without Offending Anyone)

How to Disagree (Without Offending Anyone)

Yes, you can disagree in English. Even in global meetings.

In some cultures, disagreement shows you’re engaged.
In others, it feels… a bit rude.

So what happens?

You stay quiet.
Or you soften your message so much that no one knows what you mean.

Here’s what you could try:

  • “I see it a little differently. Would it be okay if I shared my view?”
  • “That’s a good point. I see it from a different angle/perspective.”
  • “I’m not sure I fully understand. Could we look at it together?”

These phrases let you disagree with confidence, without sounding aggressive.

Because real clarity isn’t rude.
It’s respectful, honest and helpful.

Which one would you feel most comfortable using?
Let’s make disagreement less awkward.