We all know that trying something new can be scary.

It’s so easy to continue to do things we’re familiar with and have experienced, isn’t it?

But what a rewarding feeling we have when we manage to step out of our comfort zone and do things we’ve never done before!

As the proverb goes, ““Nothing ventured, nothing gained.” Or, in German, “Wer nicht wagt, der nicht gewinnt”.

(Meaning: If we don’t engage in new experiences, we don’t gain new perspectives.)

Of course, we all know this.

But do you know that ‘Action for Happiness’* publishes a monthly calendar—with suggested actions that people can take each day to improve their happiness? And that this month we are encouraged to try out something new each day?

You might already been doing some of the things on the calendar. And, of course, you might not manage to follow all the ideas. But this calendar might well inspire you to try out something completely new.

I’m going to jump to day 22 and find a new way to tell someone I appreciate them.

And you? What are you going to do?

*’Action for Happiness’ is a movement of people committed to building a happier and more caring society.

We’ve already spoken about some personality types. Let’s look at a few more.

A lone wolf is a person who prefers his/her own company and hates socialising.
A chatterbox is someone who talks a lot.
A nosy parker is someone who meddles in the affairs of others!
A bright spark is an intelligent person.
A busybody is interested in things that do not involve them.

Do you know any of these personality types? 😉

“There are hundreds of paths up the mountain, all leading in the same direction, so it doesn’t matter which path you take. The only one wasting time is the one who runs around and around the mountain, telling everyone that his or her path is wrong.”
A Hindu proverb (on the many ways to win)

What is at the top of your mountain? And why do you want to go up? Are you on one of those paths or are you walking around in circles?

A little food for thought?

A burning question is a very important or urgent question that people feel very strongly about.

An example:
“One of the burning questions of the Olympic Opening Ceremony was whether or not a pigeon was sacrificed to the Olympic flame.”

Do you have any burning questions about English? 😉

“Would you dare to question who you really are?”

That’s how this 5-minute video starts.

It ends with, “You have more in common with the world than you think”. 

Sixty-seven people talk about themselves and where they come from. They are then asked to take a saliva DNA test. Sixteen were chosen for the video.

The lesson we learn is that we have more things uniting us than dividing us.

I wonder how you’ll react to the film!

We’ve spoken before about using positive words and phrases in our writing.

Here are some more examples to show you how we can change negative messages to make them sound more positive.

Negative
Don’t forget to book a meeting room.
Positive
Remember to book a meeting room.

Negative
The meeting room can only fit 30 people due to limited seating.
Positive
The meeting room has seating for up to 30 people.

Negative
I will be away from 4 November until 14 November and will not be able to meet you until afterwards.
Positive
I can meet you after 14 November.

Negative
You won’t receive the papers until you’ve paid the invoice.
Positive
You will receive the papers once you’ve paid the invoice.

Let’s do our best to stay positive until it becomes a habit! 😉