Euphemisms have become part of our everyday language to talk about things we would rather avoid saying.

(Just a little reminder … euphemisms are polite expressions that are used in place of words and phrases that are considered to be offensive or displeasing.)

Here is a short list of some euphemisms used today. The first word is the euphemism and the word in brackets is the word or phrase some people might try to avoid!

a little thin on top (bald)
bathroom tissue (toilet paper)
running shoes (sneakers)
adult beverages (alcohol)
to be excused (to go to the toilet)
Excuse my French! (used to apologise for swearing)
to fall off the back of a lorry (to acquire illegally)
a happy event (a birth)
in the family way (pregnant)
Montezuma’s revenge (diarrhoea)
to put to sleep (to kill an animal)
private parts (sexual organs)
the smallest room in the house (the toilet)
to pass away (to die)
to kick the bucket (to die)
to meet your maker (to die)
lose your lunch (to vomit)
well fed (obese)
big boned (obese)

Whether you like euphemisms or not, I feel it’s important to know that they exist.

“When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.”
Dale Carnegie

A little food for thought …

When we want to persuade someone to do something, what works best? Logic or emotion or even both together?

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Here are some questions I like to ask myself after having written an email:

Is my first sentence the most important sentence?
Do I have long sentences I can shorten?
Have I avoided complicated words, and used words I think my reader will understand?
Have I used more active verbs (rather than passive)?
Is my email short and to the point?
Have I told my reader what I wanted them to do after reading my message?
Have I checked the correct spelling in order to avoid any mistakes or misunderstandings?

Would you like to add a question or two to my list?

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Morten Hansen, Professor of Management at the University of California Berkeley, tells us that we need to “do less and obsess” if we want to be great at work.

With “do less’, Morten means we ought to focus on extremely few priorities. With “obsess” he means that we should go all in, pay fanatic attention to detail, go for quality, go the extra mile and do exceptional work.

If you’d like to hear Morten’s 1-minute-long conversation with Dan Pink, listen in here.

Are you doing less and obsessing? Or doing more and obsessing? Or perhaps you’re not obsessing at all? 😉

Something to think about perhaps! 🤔

I wouldn’t be surprised if you were. I know I am sometimes!

Being quick to say “yes” might mean that you attend meetings and events, and take on tasks, projects and other activities that you aren’t at all interested in. 

So what can you do in the future?

Next time someone asks you to do something or to take part in something you’re not fully sure whether you want to, it’s best to create a pause and ask for time to think about it. You can say something like, “Let me get back to you”. 

That should stop you making hasty decisions that you later might regret.

 Or is this a tactic you’ve already been using?

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A riddle is a type of poem that works like a puzzle.

Here’s one for you:

“I am a fruit. If you take away the first letter of my name I become a crime. Take away the first two letters of my name I become an animal. Take away the first and last letter of my name and I become a form of music. What am I?”

Solution

Did you get it without reading the solution?