Scared to Speak Because You Might Get It Wrong?
There’s a name for that fear: lathophobic aphasia.
It sounds dramatic, but it’s simple:
👉 “I’m afraid to speak because I might mess up.”
And you’re not alone.
Even people with perfect grammar freeze when it’s time to say something out loud.
Not because they can’t — but because their brain says:
“Don’t mess it up. Don’t sound stupid.”
Let me say this clearly:
You’re not broken.
You’ve just been taught grammar – not courage.
In my coaching, we flip that.
We practise speaking in a space where mistakes are welcome.
Because that’s how confidence grows.
Not by being perfect – but by being brave.
Your English doesn’t need to be perfect to be powerful.


Dear Christine,
when I read your sparks ⚡️ I think that I should have taught English much more vividly, not that much grammatical correctness especially in higher classes.
Teaching to make people fit for conversation is a wonderful thing.
Stay cool 😎 ☀️😉
Ele
Dear Ele,
Thank you for your lovely message — it really moved me.
It’s wonderful to hear this from someone who has given so much to teaching. I’m so glad my Sparks spoke to you.
Stay cool, too!;)
Christine