When “sympathisch” isn’t “sympathetic”

A German colleague introduces you to someone new.

You want to say something nice, so you smile and say:

“You are very sympathetic.“

Good intention. Wrong word.

In German, ‘sympathisch‘ means someone is likeable, pleasant or someone you immediately feel comfortable with.

But in English, ‘sympathetic‘ means someone who understands your feelings and shows compassion.

For example: “My manager was very sympathetic when I explained my situation.”

Your manager showed understanding and kindness.

So what can you say instead of ‘sympathisch‘?

Try:

• You are very likeable.
• You are really nice to talk to.
• I immediately felt comfortable with you.
• You seem like a lovely person.

Quick win: When you meet someone new in English, don’t translate the German word you want to use. Think about the meaning you want to communicate.

Your brain loves shortcuts. Sometimes it takes you on a little detour first.