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Grammar Rules Fogging Your Brain?

Grammar Rules Fogging Your Brain?

Try this one shortcut to see clearly.

If you’re like many of my clients, grammar isn’t your biggest problem.

It’s the overthinking that comes with it.

  • “Is this the past simple or present perfect?”
  • “Am I using the right preposition?”
  • “Is this sentence polite enough?”

Your brain starts spinning… and your sentence disappears.

So here’s one shortcut I often give my clients:

Say it the simple way.
Then clean it up later.

Don’t try to build the perfect sentence in your head before speaking.
Say what you mean — clearly, calmly, simply.
You can always revise if needed.

Because the real goal isn’t perfect grammar.
It’s clear communication.

That’s exactly what we practise in my 1:1 sessions:
Simple habits. Real conversations. Clear progress.
No textbook pressure. No judgement.
Just you, sounding more like you in English.

📬 Curious? Let’s talk. A free call is the first small step.

💬 What grammar rule do you overthink most?

Warte nicht länger auf perfektes Englisch – deine Coaching-Kund:innen brauchen dich jetzt

Warte nicht länger auf perfektes Englisch – deine Coaching-Kund:innen brauchen dich jetzt

Warte nicht länger auf perfektes Englisch – deine Coaching-Kund:innen brauchen dich jetzt

Du bist bereit. Du glaubst es nur noch nicht.

Du erzählst dir selbst, dein Englisch sei „nicht gut genug“, um auf Englisch zu coachen. Du denkst, du musst erst alle Fehler ausmerzen, natürlicher klingen oder perfekt sein, bevor du loslegen kannst.

Aber die Wahrheit ist: Du bist längst gut genug.

Denk mal drüber nach – wenn du im Deutschen kraftvoll coachen kannst, dann kannst du das auch auf Englisch.

Coaching lebt nicht von perfekter Grammatik. Es lebt von Verbindung. Vom Zuhören. Und von guten Fragen.

Deine Kund:innen brauchen kein perfektes Englisch.
Sie brauchen dich.
Deine Erfahrung. Deine Fragen. Deine Klarheit.

Und ja, du wirst Fehler machen.
Na und? Selbst Muttersprachler sagen manchmal das Falsche.
Wichtig ist, dass man dich versteht – und das wird man.

Was dich wirklich zurückhält, ist der Gedanke: Ich bin noch nicht so weit.
Aber du bist es. Versprochen.

Warte also nicht länger auf den Moment, in dem alles perfekt ist. Fang jetzt an, dein Englisch zu nutzen.
Du wirst besser, während du es tust – genau wie beim Coaching auch.

Selbstvertrauen entsteht durch Tun. Nicht durch Warten.

Also los – hilf deinen Kund:innen. Auch auf Englisch.

Embarrassed by Your Accent?

Embarrassed by Your Accent?

This mouth workout builds boldness fast.

You don’t struggle with words.
You know what you want to say.

But the moment you speak, you worry how you sound.
Too slow? Too German? Too unsure?

That’s where tongue twisters can help.

They might seem silly, but they’re surprisingly powerful.
They train your mouth to move with ease, speed and clarity.

  • Better pronunciation
  • Smoother sentences
  • More confidence, even under pressure

Try these (start slowly, then build up speed):

🌀 Betty Botter bought some butter…
🌀 Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers…
🌀 Willy watched the waves wash the white wooden wagon.
🌀 Vera visits various villages, viewing various vistas, and voting for various vendors.

Quick tip:

  • V = bottom lip + top teeth
  • W = rounded lips

You don’t need perfect English.
You just need to practise out loud — daily, gently, playfully.

This kind of speaking workout builds fluency and boldness.
You’ll hear the difference and so will others.

💬 Got a favourite tongue twister? I’m collecting new ones!

One Word Celebrates Pain. The Other, Pure Joy

One Word Celebrates Pain. The Other, Pure Joy

We all know “Schadenfreude.”
But what about “Freudenfreude”?

Yes, schadenfreude made it into English.
It’s that feeling of secret satisfaction when someone else stumbles.
Not very kind. But very human.

But here’s a word we don’t hear often:
freudenfreude.
The joy we feel when someone else succeeds.

Psychologist Marisa G. Franco explains it beautifully:

“When we feel happy for others, their joy becomes our joy.”

Freudenfreude helps us build stronger relationships. It turns comparison into connection. And it reminds us that someone else’s win doesn’t mean we’ve lost.

So here’s a gentle nudge for today.

Let’s…
… celebrate someone.
… send them a message.
… say, “I’m proud of you.”

Their joy can become ours.

When was the last time you felt freudenfreude?

Rainy-Day Reading: A Kinder Way to Share

Rainy-Day Reading: A Kinder Way to Share

I often send my clients or colleagues articles, videos or interviews I think they might like. Nothing they have to read. Just things that might inspire them or make them smile.

Last week, I came across a short interview with an international CEO talking about how she learned to lead meetings in English — even when she wasn’t sure of every word.

I immediately thought of my client Petra. She often tells me how much pressure she feels to sound “perfect” in global meetings.

So I forwarded the interview to her.

But instead of saying “You must watch this,” I just wrote in the subject line:
Rainy-Day Reading.

It’s my way of saying:
“No pressure. No urgency. Just something that might be helpful, if and when you feel like it.”

And I mean it.

Using small signals like this can make your messages feel more respectful and friendly — especially in professional settings.

You might like to try it too.

📬 Rainy-Day Reading is a nice little phrase for sharing things without adding pressure.

It keeps the door open — without pushing anyone through it.